The woman means different thing

" Chinese type divorces " author Wang Hailing was written again " new marriage times " , of the instantly that describes among them " new marriage times " absolutely true: Divorce rate rises sharply, disloyal phenomenon is record-breaking, sheet kisses a family to be able to be found everywhere, the person that passes 30 years old meets complimentary language is " left " ... the current situation that faces such dismay, we still are in monkey year gather together marry, still date in effort, really courage is extraordinary. The reason that I understand is: Divide finish marriage, we cannot create a better domestic pattern.

Looking for husband is more difficult than applying for a job -- this is " fashionable · COSMO " collective aspirations of the reader, with respect to an EMAIL that receives like me: "He hopes to seek a wife, simple minded is tender, defending his home. I hope to get coming from the man's consideration, do not like to be mixed everyday empty building face-to-face, although he comes back to do not have the apiration that talks with me,do not like. I just detect oneself are not a conventional woman. I pay attention to my feeling too, a little selfish even, the person that I cannot love for me puts down self-respect. The person that I cannot love for me puts down self-respect..

The man is very confused to these whim of the woman, "I give her salary card, she even what? " the man is very be expert at to raising the home to paper a mouth, but he does not know how to be offerred really " affection is propped up " , nobody has taught him.

Why the man making commitment is more difficult than the woman

You had come up against similar case for certain: Girlfriend wail and whine says she wants to marry, he says to had not gotten ready however. Why had not gotten ready? What is he still waiting for? He may be scared is:

1 like single life, still expect other colourful encounter, think more colorful life is in waiting for him.

2 did not have freedom from now on, go out to drink a cup with the brother repeatedly impossible also, because she wants him,for company sees Han play in the home.

The 3 women after marrying are right sexual life with respect to interest of it doesn't matter. New marriage age difficult problem

It is OK that 4 men give birth to the child 50 years old, want to marry a young woman only, not necessary marry early in that way like the woman.

The 5 men that after he sees a lot of marriage, become very domestic, he can not think such.

The woman after 6 his concern marry can become trifling, from horse of white snow princess suddenly turn hostile is become abominable hind mother.

The woman cannot be satisfied after marriage of 7 his concern, for instance economic respect.

Find out his afraid real reason, each checkmate; If be above the first, then you seek target of marriage of wrong put to an end apparently. Some fear affirmatory person is too Utopian, they think, need the assurance like iron, marriage arrives with respect to meeting hoary head old. If so, you point out calmly with him, marriage is not to buy insurance, he this kind of think of a way is not quite realistic. Not suit husband and wife also can achieve a balance
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